Undoubtedly, a person’s youth can be one of the happiest periods of life. But unfortunately for many it is not. Changing standards have created a mixed-up world, and today’s problems often rob young people of happiness. This article is published to help you see the solutions to these problems and so get the best out of life now and in the future. We’ve all been there once, and it’s bestowed to us to experience our youthful age once. Many youths are now desperate on how to enjoy the full potential of their sacred age and we’ve also taken it up unto ourselves to help and support you embark on this journey with the points and tested solutions below.
Living For Today And Tomorrow
The best way to predict the future is to create it now. With each passing day, we move a step further into the future, and while we go about our day to day activities, we should not forget to enjoy each passing moment with respect of shaping our future. We get caught up in thinking of the future, that, we miss precious moment. “Rome was built day by day” as a good friend once told me. The laborers worked day after day, with each moment until one day they finished Rome. In a day Rome was built, In just a day it will be called the future. Enjoy your youthful age but never forget to make it account to your future for day by day, Rome was built.
Look To The future With Confident
“You can have anything you want if you are willing to give up the belief that you can’t have it”-Robert Anthony. Confident is one of the essential ingredient in the road of life. Without confident one cannot attain anything and one cannot enjoy the fruit of youth. It is most likely that many youths lack confident and end up stuck in life. The best time to build and boost up your confident level is now during your youthful age. Put on the wings of confidence, explore the airs of life.
Your Clothes And Appearance Talk—About You
Ones dress can link one up with that which is dishonorable. Let’s take a look here as to the reference of the Holy book; To attain a certain purpose, Judah’s daughter-in-law Tamar took off garments identifying her as a widow and put on a shawl and a veil and sat alongside the road. When Judah came along, the records says that “he at once took her for a harlot, because she had covered her face [with the veil]. “Her dress gave her the appearance of a prostitute of that time—Genesis 38:13-15.
Today, just as back then, the way we dress can link us up with certain class of persons, even though we may not practice or believe what they believe. Choose your dresses carefully for they sometimes classify you even without your knowing,mostly during your youthful age.
Be Of Positive Attitude
Positive attitude has been described by expert as honesty, reliability, hard work, God fearing, and patient. In addition to these ingredients of positive attitudes are savings and investment. You must be honest in all your undertakings so that you may be reliable to others and yourself. Attest to people so that you can be trusted and lean on. Be an honest stone for your friends and families to lay their trusts on.
Finish What You’ve Started
Anything humans have ever achieved was done with the effort of determination, discipline, strong will &c., and it only reaches the stage of accomplishment when one do not give up on what one has started. If you decide to learn to play the keyboard and you keep at it until you can, then you get enjoyment from it. But if you quit soon after starting, you never get that pleasures satisfaction. The same happens with any endeavor that requires training, and some time. Many times we fail to finish what we started long ago, we lose focus and our concentrations jumps to different things all together. Multi-tasking is something all should avoid. Focus all your concentration on one particular task till you get to it.
Masturbation And Homosexuality
At one point in time during the youthful age , there is a change in attitude of youths towards the opposite sex .At this time, an attraction grows and often boys develop a keen interest for girls and girls for boys. A certain curiosity at the same time about their rapid changing body arrives and more often people use their sex organ to experiment. Masturbation breeds to homosexuality and its effect can ruin your future marriage. Lying and stealing are common today and so is masturbation. It has become normal to most youth and its future effect they think less of. Wait till you marry and enjoy the full pleasure with your sex organs. Save your life today, and enjoy tomorrow!
Choice Of Friends
“To have a friend you need to be a friend. Friends can add so much happiness to your life and help you release your stress. Choosing friends can sometimes be more stressful than you think and I suggest instead of searching for a friend you become one. Be a Good friend and help those who may need one. Don’t be self-centered but open to people and have a genuine interest in others.
Dating: What’s Your View About It
Before you earnestly go into dating, consider asking yourself these questions: What am I looking for that I couldn’t enjoy, for instant as part of a group? Why do I want to date? Why do I want to pair off with a person of the opposite sex? Isn’t the basic reason the growing attraction you feel towards those of the opposite sex? These can all signify that physical attraction usually is the ultimate drive to desiring someone as a “date.” Many young people who are into dating now have less interest for marriage. All it is about dating is to satisfy our lust and through this motive, it cannot benefit the future of both the boy and the girl who goes into it.
If you believe in reasoning things out, you will love to consider not just the short-range effects of dating but also the whole picture. God in his Words teaches: “Young people, enjoy your youth. Be happy while you are still young. Do what you want to do, and follow your heart’s desire. But remember that God is going to judge you for whatever you do.Don’t let anything worry you or cause you pain. You aren’t going to be young very long.”—Ecclesiastes 11:9, 10. God wants us to enjoy but don’t forget He doesn’t support dating and He’s going to judge every one accordingly.
How Can You Succeed In Marriage
Marriage is of a higher state and origin. God has purposely created it for man and woman to use it as a means of reproduction. Not to forget, in the bible, God provided instructions on how to make a success in marriage. Following the instruction which the bible gives, I can assure you nothing but a successful marriage. Have time for the word of the Lord and heed its advice, for knowing the words and applying it can bring you success. Don’t make sex all that there is in marriage, for there’s something more important. Love is the source of life and for a wife to be happy, she needs to feel the presence of love. Let love be the motive, and you will be a success.
As indicated by kabalarian Ethics of Right Thinking, it states that, “Appreciate and respect the power of the Word(speech);never misuse this power by swearing, vulgarity, lying and deceit, falsifying another’s statement, or destroying the reputation of other.” Never underestimate the power of words, what you tell yourself everyday will set your mind and life on that path. Talk success, victory, happiness and blessings over your destiny. Be mindful of your words especially when with people for every expression will create an impression.
Undeniably, it behooves every young person to dream big. Every step you take, never forget to ask yourself; are my thoughts, actions and habits helping me to achieve my goal? How does my choices of now going to affect my future? Will it be for the better or worse? Consider all these questions and let it guide your steps in every endeavor you partake. Dreams do come true, nurture them with positivity and shine when the appointed time comes. Never underestimate yourself!